Chapter 16
I’d had over a week to get a sketch out for my final project and all I had drawn was a naked, headless woman in a field. It was disturbing to look at.
“That’s gross,” Crispy said, looking across the table.
“Yeah,” I agreed.
“Dang, Mikey. I thought you’d tell me what your vision was. You know, give me some artistic perspective.”
“Wish I had some,” I groaned.
“I’m sure it will, uh, come together,” he tried to reassure me.
“I might have to agree with Sarah Grace for once,” I stated plainly, “I might have writer’s block.”
“From what I’ve heard, writer’s block isn’t permanent,” he said encouragingly.
I threw my head back and stared at the ceiling. “Uuuuhhhhhh,” I moaned, “why do you have to be so friggin’ nice?!”
“Do I need to be meaner?” he asked, confused.
“It would help,” I said, slightly annoyed.
“Um, okay. You’ve done better,” he said uncertainly, “Is that good?”
“No,” I said grumpily. It wasn’t the drawing that was bothering me, although it wasn’t improving my mood. I should do this now–band aid style. I took a deep breath and dove straight in. “I have a date with Max.”
Crispy didn’t react. Instead, he picked up a pencil, opened his sketchbook, and calmly started on his next project. “I figured,” he said evenly.
“You aren’t mad?” I asked, confused by his disinterest.
“Why would I be mad? You can go on dates with whoever you like,” he explained, “it’s not like I have any say in the matter.”
“That’s true,” I said quietly. For some reason, his calmness was more upsetting than his anger. He was so intense about Max being my boyfriend last week. Why was he okay with Max this week?
“Did Amelia already tell you?” I asked, searching for the reason behind his calm.
“No,” he answered.
“Well, okay then,” I said, returning to my own sketchbook. This was not at all what I expected. Why the sudden change of heart? Didn’t he care? This was eating me up. I attempted to draw a head on my nude woman two or three times before I angrily slammed my pencil down and glared at Crispy. How dare he be so stinkin’ cool? I couldn’t take this anymore. “Why?” I nearly shouted.
Crispy looked up, a little stunned. “Why?”
“Why are you so okay with this?” I asked.
“I heard you,” he explained. “You were right. I didn’t have any reason to be nosing around in your personal life. There are some things that I have no right to be a part of. You had to start dating sometime, right? And it’s not like I asked permission to date Cass.”
“Exactly,” I said blankly. Wasn’t that suppose to be my argument?
“Are you mad that I’m not mad?” he asked.
“That would be kind of stupid, wouldn’t it?” I said, more to myself than to him. “You didn’t really meet my expectations,” I admitted. “I guess I’ve gotten used to the drama.”
He set his sketchbook aside and turned his full attention towards me. I looked down at my unfinished drawing. May as well give up on it for today, at least. “I think it’s time to stop all this fighting we’ve been doing lately, Mikey,” he began. “things are going to change, you know? We’ve got to stop getting mad at each other for doing stuff that’s completely normal.”
I tried to think about what he was saying but my mind was only jumbled with questions. Were we fighting all the time? What kind of changes was he talking about? Were things changing now? RIGHT NOW? The idea of sudden change sent me into a panic. I could feel my heart racing. There was a huge possibility that whatever he was referencing was going to make me uncomfortable. I was immensely attached to my comfort. It took me a few seconds to realize Crispy was still talking.
“Once things get more serious, we won’t be able to do things like that anymore,” he continued. I could only assume he meant our vampire movie dates. “No girl in her right mind would be okay with me hanging out with you so much.”
“Like Cassi,” I said slowly. This was my first recognition of their relationship. Up until this point, she had been a mere inconvenience. He was her boyfriend. This entire time, I had thought of him as my friend, as if he were exclusively mine. I couldn’t help but wonder if this was the first time it had occurred to him that he didn’t own me either.
“Yeah,” he said quietly. He acted like saying he and Cass were an item was admitting defeat. “Or someone else,” he added quickly. Was he still unconvinced that Cassi was more than a high school fling? “The point is, things will be different, say, when you get engaged or something. No way is your fiance going to want me hanging out with you alone.”
His eyes seemed sad. I really couldn’t imagine being with someone who didn’t want Crispy around, but he obviously could. I thought about the future. It would probably start changing the minute we left for college. We’d make new friends. Crispy would meet some girl at a mixer. I’d meet a guy in art class. We’d stop calling each other. Over time he would settle down with a wife and kids. And I’d be off with someone else, making a life separate from the one I knew right now. It all made me want to cry. Was that how I was suppose to feel about my future? While I was lamenting what could be, Crispy reached across the table and took my hand. Looking up, I could see that he was as just as distraught as I was. How could my life no longer be intertwined with his? It was like imagining life without my parents.
“Could we not talk about this anymore?” I asked slowly. I could feel myself choking up. I didn’t want to start crying in the middle of class.
“Sure,” he said, wiping a small tear from the corner of my eye. “Tell you what,” he said thoughtfully, “Why don’t we put a bookmark in this conversation?”
I squeezed his hand. He was right. We didn’t have to deal with the future in one afternoon. I wasn’t losing Crispy today. “We’ll cross that bridge when we get there,” I said, reassuring myself that the bridge was a few hundred years ahead of us.
“Exactly,” he said, retracting his hand and picking up his pencil.
Feeling some relief, I started trying to work on my project again. I still couldn’t place a head on the figure. The more I messed with it, the more blurry and disgusting it looked. I needed to make some progress, so I quickly jotted down a title in the corner of the sketch and shoved the page away from me. Crispy turned the sketchbook around so that he could read it. “Field of Disturbance,” he read aloud. “Fitting,” he said pushing the book back to me.
“I’ve never been more…” I paused, trying to think of the right word to describe my frustration.
“Distracted?” he inserted.
I shook my head. “No. It’s more like…I’m…stuck.”
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Just walk in there. Just do it. I must have said these two sentences to myself a million times as I hovered outside Daddy’s office door with my heart pounding in my ears. Had my nerves really gotten so bad that my heart had completely moved out of my chest? I was wringing my hands and whispering to myself the things I planned to say to him. I had to tell him I was going on a date. I HAD TO. Crispy and Amelia knew. It was only a matter of time before one of them slipped up and said something to their parents and then Daddy would find out from someone else that I was dating and we’d have a long talk about honesty and he would question the integrity of my suitor. Silently, I cursed the existence of boys and the necessity for populating the earth. It would be so much simpler if human beings were more asexual like hammerhead sharks. Lonely? Just produce another you! Poof! Problem solved. It would save all of us a lot of trouble if we didn’t have to constantly check our emotions and battle nerves – – just like I was doing right outside my father’s office door. I allowed myself one last deep breath and a repeat of my “just do it” mantra before I lightly knocked on the barely cracked door.
“Come in,” Dad answered the knock.
I inhaled the office. I spent a lot of my childhood sitting on the red carpeted floor, creating cartoon characters in yellow notepads pulled from Daddy’s desk drawer. The room was lined with homemade wood shelves, filled from top to bottom with various texts used to assist him in writing sermons. I used to count the editions of Bibles, wondering how one book could be translated so many different ways. The room always smelled like ancient book pages and winter green peppermints. It was a scent that reminded me of comfort. It took me back to the days when a five year old Michael would curl up in her Daddy’s lap and read comic books while the rain pelted the double paned window above his desk. Yet today, the familiar scent made me feel as if the message I was preparing to deliver to my father was a note of betrayal that would sour the normally comforting environment. I tried to push away the idea. Going on a singular date wasn’t betraying my father. It was just one date. Nothing more.
“Hey, D,” I said, “I need to talk with you for a minute.” My voice cracked a little as I sat down in the plush orange wingback armchair that faced his desk.
Dad placed a marker in the book he was reading and turned to face me in his black, leather office chair, the hinges making a short squeak as he revolved in my direction. “Shoot,” he said casually.
We sat in silence for a few awkward seconds while I mused over how to start the conversation. Finally, I decided to dive in headfirst. No need in skirting the issue. “I have a date,” I blurted unceremoniously.
Dad’s eyebrows popped up in surprise. “Do you? With who?”
“Max,” I said quickly as I shifted my gaze down to my bare feet. His stare felt too intense for me to look him in the eye.
“Have I met this Max?” he asked sternly. It wasn’t a question as to whether he had forgotten his encounter with Max, it was a reassurance that I had not introduced them and that I was planning on stepping out with someone who was in essence a stranger to my father.
“I work with him,” I replied quietly. I continued staring at my wiggling toes and hoping that this process could go by a little faster.
“When were you planning on bringing this young man by to talk with me?” he asked with increasing intensity.
I bit my lip. I wanted to say never. It was the truth. I would be more comfortable if my family thought I had no interest in dating at all. Secretive dating held an allure for me and if it weren’t for the fact that this town was just small enough for anyone my family knew to catch me, I probably wouldn’t be sitting in this position at all. Instead I gave my Dad a half-hearted truth, “I was thinking you could meet him when he came by to pick me up.”
“I would hope so,” Dad growled. He then began a series of questions that I had always known would accompany a conversation such as this: how old is this young man? does he plan on working at an ice cream shop forever? what is his major? what is his family like? Eventually, I had to grow a pair and force an end to the interrogation.
“It’s one date, Daddy. I’m not down here announcing his intentions for marrying me,” I sighed in exasperation.
“I don’t know this boy. I can’t have just any guy stepping out with my daughter,” he argued.
I stifled a laugh back from his “stepping out” reference. “It’s just a date, Dad,” I reiterated, “if he’s a bad guy, I won’t go on another one. It’s not a big deal.”
Dad plopped back in his chair in a defeated manner and started massaging his forehead with his left hand. “I thought I had more time,” he muttered, “to prepare for this moment.”
“Wasn’t eighteen years enough time?” I asked.
He leaned forward and gently placed a hand over my tightly clasped hands on my lap. “I don’t think forty years would’ve been enough. You’ll always be my baby girl and I don’t think I’ll ever be ready to let you go to someone else.”
I fought back a choke. He was talking as if I was leaving home. Max wasn’t my husband, but Dad felt this as if it were the first step to taking me away from him. I inhaled and repeated myself one last time. “Just a date, Dad. No big deal,” I croaked.
He sighed and rested back in the chair again. “Okay,” he relented, “I’ll wait to be rude to this guy later.” I must have made a weird face because he backed the statement with, “there’s no way this person is good enough for you. No one is.”